Sunday, July 9, 2017
When you live on the 26th floor, your time on the elevator adds way up. One perk is that the
people-watching can get interesting.
Since my building welcomes residents of all colors, ethnicities, sexual preferences and attire, the elevator becomes "crossroad of a million lives."
My history with elevators has had its ups and downs. (Groan.) At my office building on LaSalle, I was stuck between floors with too many others one hot day. The rescue was pretty quick . . . the recovery not so fast.
Bill and I were stuck in our apartment building elevator. He had his comic books. I had nothing but my creeping hysteria. After that, I vowed to live no higher than I could climb. Of course, that wore off over time.
My favorite elevator experiences were when I worked at the Monadnock Building. They had operators! Friendly men who remembered you and your floor. I'd like to think they were all union guys who made good pay.
Elevator etiquette has changed dramatically. Before cell phones, my elevator mates were happy to give me a smile and maybe a few words. Now, except for us oldsters, they stare at their devices, barely noticing when we reach the lobby.
Final thought: Thanks to you, Mr. Otis, I have my fabulous sky-high view. Worth the ride every time.
Friday, July 7, 2017
"I'm so glad I can turn off the news, and turn to my favorite July sports event: Wimbledon!" That's what I was saying to myself in anticipation of this year's drama. The grass, the players all in white, I need some tradition. No Serena, but on the men's side, the big four still going strong.
The 2017 Gods laughed.
Even before the players got on the court, John McEnroe made a fool of himself by saying Serena would rank 700 against the guys. Really John, that's so Bobby Riggs.
Right away, players were annoyed and interrupted by swarms of flying ants. A "rare occurrance" said the commentators. Sure.
Two injured men started their matches against Federer and Djokovic and retired early. The explanation was that it was the only way they could get their minimum pay. There must be a better rule that doesn't cheat the fans.
Upon losing, a real jerk of a pro threw coins at the judge in the chair. Another jerk said he was "bored" on the court.
And here's McEnroe again, gossiping that Djokovic may have "problems in his personal life like Tiger Woods."
On another scale altogether, Bethanie Sands suffered a gruesome injury and left the court in an ambulance. Please let this be less serious than it looked.
That was week one at Wimbledon. Please, can we just have one great five-setter in week two?
My hope? Nadal beats Federer in the finals. Very traditional.
Sunday, July 2, 2017
I used to love the Fourth of July. I'd go around singing: "You're a grand old flag, you're a high-flying flag . . ." I have a cap decorated with the red, white and blue all made of sparkly sequins. It came from Long Beach, CA one July 4 when I was celebrating with Elsa. She was all brand new to the family -- and to America.
One of my favorite July 4's was 1976 -- The Bicentennial Year! My friend Kathy and I hosted a fabulous party. We asked our friends to entertain by "doing something you would only do once every 200 years. (Phyllis: do you still have your kazoo?)
I miss so much the July 4's I spent on the screened-in porch of my friend Lail and her husband Steve. Great group, great company. Then sadly, Steve died and Lail moved. No Steve, no porch, no party.
Pay attention to the good years . . . but then, you already know that.
This July 4 is tough. I don't know if great memories are going to get me through the day and star-spangled night. My mood about the country staggers between contempt and despair.
Tonight, as I watch the sky light up, I'll be searching for my inner-patriot. I suspect the only way I'll find it is through hope.
Monday, June 26, 2017
Natalie Mora Horberg is an exceptionally articulate fourteen year old. As I was feeling dismal about the present, I decided a dip into the future via an interview with Natalie is just what we may need right now. Here she is -- with her enormous curiosity and enthusiasm. Enjoy.
Q:School’s out! Do you have plans for your summer vacation?
A:Yeah! My parents both are part of a new art center called ArtYard, this was their first year up and running, and the core members of the ArtYard team are having an island retreat off the coast of Maine! Luckily my little brother Diego and I are able to tag along, too!
Q:I know you love to read. How do you choose books? Do you stick with them ‘till the end or stop if you don’t like the book? What are you reading now? Do you have a favorite for this year so far?
A:Often times I choose books through the internet by finding out what people I admire like. For example, I found out about the book “Too Much and Not the Mood” by Durga Chew-Bose through Tavi Gevinson, and I read “A Tale for the Time Being” by Ruth Ozeki thanks to my older brother, Miro. Also I am very fortunate to have a dad who at times will bring home a haul of books for me to read that he likes. ;)
I definitely will stop if I’m reading a particularly terrible book, maybe other people find the need to always read from cover to cover, but if I’m not enjoying the story, I will put it down. Occasionally I try to come back to it and start over with a better understanding, and sometimes it actually helps! For example, I tried reading “Lord of the Flies” in 5th grade, then again in 6th, and I found it a lot more enjoyable in 6th. (Though I can’t say that “enjoyable” is the best word to describe Lord of the Flies.)
Right now I’m reading one of the best books ever called, “The Freedom Writers Diary”. It is a compilation of the diary entries of 150 students who, for their whole life, had never experienced the type of love and immersive learning experience that teacher, (genius), Erin Gruwell gave them. Most of them were in gangs, had experienced abuse, and struggled daily to survive as a teenager on the streets of Long Beach. The entries are kept anonymous, but even despite the fact that there are no names linked to the stories you feel like your diving into the heart and soul of each person; like there are no boundaries between the reader and writer. I highly recommend the book to anyone, it is definitely one of my favorites I’ve been reading this year, (besides Carrie Brownstein’s amazing memoir, “Hunger Makes a Modern Girl”).
Q:You combined your talent for writing and drawing to create a graphic history of WWII. I showed it to an historian I know and she was really impressed. Did your teacher welcome your creativity?
Do you have a favorite teacher?
A:Thank you and the historian! Yes, I had been making small watercolor study guides for myself all year and I desperately wanted to make one that my whole grade could use, so when my teacher offered me the chance to do it, I was ecstatic! I rushed home and designed it, then came to school the next day to show him. He was pleased and made copies for everyone! I am still so grateful that he asked me to create it and I hope my teachers in the years to come also invite me to create their study guides!
I did not really have a favorite teacher this year, I enjoyed them all equally. But I guess if I had to choose, they would be my english and art teacher because those are subjects I enjoy.
Q:You’ve travelled a lot in your 14 years: Spain, France, Cuba, Australia. Do you have a favorite travel memory?
A:Yes! I am very thankful to have had these wonderful opportunities to see the world with my own eyes, so I try to retain as much as I can!
In Spain I remember the peachy pinkness of the sunset the time I sat in a wobbly boat with my cousins and old friends of theirs; I played Bob Marley and refused to swim.
Q:Do you, and the kids at school, concern yourself with current events like climate change, the government, or policies at your school?
A:Definitely. And I even believe that it’s not only me and the kids in my school, but everyone in every school. My generation in general has to be more aware of everything going on, mainly because the problems of today will most definitely affect our future. We cannot wait until then to be active in the environment or in politics. Many of the kids in my school actively participate in groups trying to make the community more eco-friendly, and many know a lot more about current events than some adults may! Of course this is not true for everyone, but I would definitely say that as a whole we are concerned and we want to fight for our, and everyone else’s rights.
I personally do not want this Earth to die so I read the book “No Impact Man” by Colin Beavan at the beginning of the school year -- a book every single person should be forced to read -- and ended up writing a letter to Colin in the Letters About Literature competition that my english teacher introduced us to! In the end I won a Certificate for Honorable Mention, so I’m eternally grateful that he wrote it in the first place because now people like me get to rant about how amazing the book is to judges and teachers and fellow students AND spread awareness at the same time about how to help the planet out.
Q:If you could reveal one thing about your mom and your dad that might surprise us, what would it be?
A:Some things that may surprise you about my parents are:
Besides being a film producer and part-time floutist/pianist, my dad does incredible illustrations almost daily of jazz musicians, often in colored pencil and pen. You can find them on his instagram which is: @nettlehorst (He even compiled a book of all the portraits!)
And, although my mom is an artist and the creative director of ArtYard, unknown to most she was actually a great athlete when she was younger! Which sport? Fencing! She even won a second place prize at a fencing competition!
Thank you so much for interviewing me!
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(The photo is of Natalie with her brother Miro.)
Sunday, June 18, 2017
If I could have my father with me again for one day, how old would I like to be? Young I think. Sitting on his lap or holding hands young? I think teenage years. I hope he would be a dad who would encourage his daughter to be her own person. To seek her own accomplishments and fate. He would have had to be a rare man to be of that mind, but there were a few of them back then, so it's not impossible.
In the one photo I have of us together, he is wearing a snappy hat and good suit. He looks satisfied.
Secure enough to let his children know when he is proud of them. From time to time.
An absent father keeps your dream life close. Imagination keeps it going. Removed from disappointment, an absent father lives on as the "good listener". Not the real father I ache to have had, but still an influence.
The mind has room for everything.
Saturday, June 17, 2017
I hope that Steve Scalese recovers. And when he does, I hope he remembers that . . .
A man with a very disturbed public record was able to get the high powered rifle that
tore through his body.
A black lesbian woman saved his life.
He received state-of-the-art health care and carries the insurance to cover the costs.
Think it over Steve, think it over.
Tuesday, June 6, 2017
I asked Elsa about her upcoming show in Oregon and learned she is still working with paper to create her remarkable papercuts. "This time it's going to be deeper," she said. "I'm thinking of the versatility of paper as a metaphor for the mind."
I love paper. My friend Diane gave me some beautiful notecards for my birthday and it was the perfect gift. I'll mail them out during the year with good wishes while I enjoy affixing my carefully selected stamps.
I miss paper as it disappears from so many familiar parts of our lives. My newspaper for more than fifty years is barely hanging on. What's left of it seems not worth salvaging. And please, please let my library stay stocked with books for as long as I'm around.
We need paper to preserve our democracy. I'm serious. Paper ballots are the only safe way to achieve the most accurate count.
And now I will send this out over the internet . . . but I can still make the point about paper, can't I?